Keep the Lines of Communication Open

Keep the Lines of Communication Open Thefocus of a networking meeting last night was to explore how two individuals landed their most recent jobs. I love hearing stories of success. These stories both involved a re-invention. What both of these people did was to assess and communicate their passions. It wasnt as easy or linear as they had thought it would be. But the results were spectacular. A common thread for both of these success stories was keeping their families in the loop. Paul considered it a coaching moment for his children.Robertand his wife worked very hardto prevent their childrens activities from being impacted. With the support of his wife and family, Robert found that he was able to maintain his momentum. The discussion in the room became about how families/wives/husbands didnt understand what was taking the search so long. Theres an old saying, before you criticize a man, walk a mile in his moccasins.Forthose in search, you wouldnt wish that in a million years. Search stinks.But it is helpful to communicate what you are doing and the results of your efforts with those who love and care about you. You see, they are just as scared, if not more, than you are. Keeping them updated on what you are doing and the outcomes will help them in many ways. You will need the strength and fortitude of your family sometimes.Just ask thatthey listen-no advice needed. It is lonely looking for work. Youve lost friendships from work and you need your family more than ever. During stressful times, sometimes people tend to remove themselves or drawback from the support of those that care. Fight the urge. Lean on them, gently if necessary. The strongerthe relationship, the better for everyone involved. Work diligently and with purpose to maintain and nurture all relationships. Thanks to everyone in the Employment Career Club for their open discussion and sharing.